How can you keep splurging and not earning?
- Many claimed that teens love to spend but yet lazy to work -
I strongly agree with that statement because I'm just one of them! Splurging is so much easier, all you need to do is to eye on something you like then reach out for your wallet and just pay for it. Simple Transaction. But did you realise that your fountain of wealth will eventually dry up if you keep spending and not earning?
Many may ask, why did you mention this all of the sudden?
Simple, I want to bring up a emphasis on Independence.
I have been working in this Jap Restaurant for quite some time and everytime I never failed to realised that they were always wealthy people and children born with a silver spoon in our midst.
* Case sensitive: But before I continue, let me assert that in everything which I am about to say, I do not hold any prejudiced view against wealthy people. This is just a mere remark / opinion of mine, yours may differ.
Independence is absolutely reliant on the upbringing of a child. Why do I say that ? When a child gets all he / she wants from young, there will definitely be a high tendency of he/she relying on the parents for stuffs they want as they progress from the stages of their life. Interestingly they do not need to work for it, all they need to do is open their mouth and "Naaaa, there you go my beloved son"
Parents failed to realise that the cravings of their children will grow even more until they themselves couldn't provide anymore.
Parents should also play a part in nurturing their kids from young and not wait till you see your kid heading to the wrong path in life. Many rich parents are like that ( esp those businessman), all they need to do before they go for a really long business trip is to leave a lump sum of money for their kids so that all needs of their children are taken care of and their mind are set at ease. But little did they realise that that lump sum of easy money for the kids are like milestones, destructing the life of the child. I believe that love will not even exist within the family, the child experience an artificial love, they took that lump sum of money as love from their parents.
I have friends who are in this situation and it's really despairing.
More examples:
Some parents also do not encourage their children to work. They feel that their main priority is to study, all of their needs shall be taken care by them.
Some give their children so readily without taking a moment to ponder whether they deserve it or not.
Sushi tei experience: 6 year old kid still on a baby pram !
Eavesdropped from a customer when I'm serving tea( a lady in her 20s speaking to a guy) : "Hey you know I'm a spoiled brat, I don't do house chores!"
This is totally terrible ! Imagine you are going to be a housewife in the next 8years, that's when the reliance of a maid comes in.
*Case sensitive: Some may be disgruntled over what I've said because you have a maid at home. But please read in context yeah.
"milestones, destructing the life of the child " : sounds so profound, elaborate more.
How does pampering the kid destruct the life of the child ?
I strongly agree with that statement because I'm just one of them! Splurging is so much easier, all you need to do is to eye on something you like then reach out for your wallet and just pay for it. Simple Transaction. But did you realise that your fountain of wealth will eventually dry up if you keep spending and not earning?
Many may ask, why did you mention this all of the sudden?
Simple, I want to bring up a emphasis on Independence.
I have been working in this Jap Restaurant for quite some time and everytime I never failed to realised that they were always wealthy people and children born with a silver spoon in our midst.
* Case sensitive: But before I continue, let me assert that in everything which I am about to say, I do not hold any prejudiced view against wealthy people. This is just a mere remark / opinion of mine, yours may differ.
Independence is absolutely reliant on the upbringing of a child. Why do I say that ? When a child gets all he / she wants from young, there will definitely be a high tendency of he/she relying on the parents for stuffs they want as they progress from the stages of their life. Interestingly they do not need to work for it, all they need to do is open their mouth and "Naaaa, there you go my beloved son"
Parents failed to realise that the cravings of their children will grow even more until they themselves couldn't provide anymore.
Parents should also play a part in nurturing their kids from young and not wait till you see your kid heading to the wrong path in life. Many rich parents are like that ( esp those businessman), all they need to do before they go for a really long business trip is to leave a lump sum of money for their kids so that all needs of their children are taken care of and their mind are set at ease. But little did they realise that that lump sum of easy money for the kids are like milestones, destructing the life of the child. I believe that love will not even exist within the family, the child experience an artificial love, they took that lump sum of money as love from their parents.
I have friends who are in this situation and it's really despairing.
More examples:
Some parents also do not encourage their children to work. They feel that their main priority is to study, all of their needs shall be taken care by them.
Some give their children so readily without taking a moment to ponder whether they deserve it or not.
Sushi tei experience: 6 year old kid still on a baby pram !
Eavesdropped from a customer when I'm serving tea( a lady in her 20s speaking to a guy) : "Hey you know I'm a spoiled brat, I don't do house chores!"
This is totally terrible ! Imagine you are going to be a housewife in the next 8years, that's when the reliance of a maid comes in.
*Case sensitive: Some may be disgruntled over what I've said because you have a maid at home. But please read in context yeah.
"milestones, destructing the life of the child " : sounds so profound, elaborate more.
How does pampering the kid destruct the life of the child ?
1. He will place his dependency on someone else rather than himself
2.He will not be able to adapt and resolve the crisis of his life because he is too used to the life he once had, anything outside that boundary is something which he cannot bear. In short, he cannot take challenges in life.
3.He will never be a contributor to the society. He knows that working is tough and he chose to rely on someone else for provision (family, relatives, spouse.....) instead of getting a proper job.
and the list goes on . . .
2.He will not be able to adapt and resolve the crisis of his life because he is too used to the life he once had, anything outside that boundary is something which he cannot bear. In short, he cannot take challenges in life.
3.He will never be a contributor to the society. He knows that working is tough and he chose to rely on someone else for provision (family, relatives, spouse.....) instead of getting a proper job.
and the list goes on . . .
This entry is just a glimpse of it, I can talk all night about it but will you continue to read on? I doubt so. haha so do take those points into consideration, the future is in your hands, either you make it or break it !
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